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How should I respond to a former colleague who is now reaching out to me months after ignoring my request to meet?

Original question: “What does this mean in the universe or how should I respond in this situation... I reach out to a professional work colleague through social media to connect/meet for coffee or lunch, and they do not respond. Soon thereafter, an event occurred where we no longer work together anymore. I eventually withdraw my [...]

By Stacey Stephens|2019-09-09T15:38:11-07:00September 21st, 2019|0 Comments

How can we improve this world?

When people gather together in like-mindedness, there is a camaraderie that naturally develops amongst one another. Sharing in similar ideas creates bonds of trust. Action is easier to take when unity is strong. All alliances are made through the process of agreements. Choose wisely what you yourself agree to and be sure to include the [...]

By Stacey Stephens|2019-06-08T15:20:30-07:00June 29th, 2019|0 Comments

Can a person manifest anything they wish?

LOVE is the word that describes how the Universe works. Yet, even the best of us cannot always live in and as pure LOVE. We may spend some precious moments there in each of our incarnations, but most people do not know the degree to which LOVE actually is. God is LOVE. Humans are made [...]

By Stacey Stephens|2019-05-30T14:22:53-07:00June 1st, 2019|0 Comments

How do you know when to stay and speak up about dysfunctional systems and when it’s time to walk away because the organization is too far gone? Another way to say that might be: How do you know when your role in a situation matters enough to stay even if you wonder if it’s like staying in an abusive relationship? Or even if it is abusive, how do you know when it’s redeemable? Part of me just wants permission to leave, and part of me thinks that is a cop-out in a world full of problems. When I think about leaving, I feel relief. When I think about staying, I feel drained and hopeless much of the time, although other times I realize I’m learning a lot. I wish I could land somewhere. Maybe life is just messy at best.

Your feeling nature is your best guide. Trust the relief that you feel. Even if the organization is redeemable, it may not be ideal for YOU to participate any longer. There are plenty of qualified people who can be useful in turning a negative situation around. The key is for them to feel the excitement [...]

By Stacey Stephens|2019-03-23T09:28:35-07:00March 16th, 2019|0 Comments

I stand to inherit my emotionally abusive father’s business. I love the work and feel it is my calling, but the environment gets very toxic when he is in an outrage and I feel it may be harming my health. How do I maintain my center and well-being while working with him before he retires?

We understand the predicament that you find yourself in. First, we commend you for knowing your calling. This alone will give you the fortitude to withstand the many winds of change that you may experience during this period. Also, it may be easier to accept emotional outbursts from a family member than from a non-related [...]

By Stacey Stephens|2020-01-22T09:57:38-08:00February 9th, 2019|0 Comments

Do you have any advice on how to unblock stuck emotions, or how I can love myself through this difficult time in my life?

To get energy into motion (emotion), we suggest that you first realize a truth that will help you to relax enough to allow the stuck energy to move. Fear creates a barrier that prevents energy from circulating through the system. By removing the fear-based blockage, you can naturally feel the movement that you are looking [...]

By Stacey Stephens|2019-01-19T11:01:00-08:00January 26th, 2019|0 Comments

I have come to a slight stumbling block. What can The Ancient Ones help me with?

We are always honored to assist those who ask for our help. You could have a conversation with us through our chosen channel, Stacey. We could answer your questions and help you find your center. More importantly, you can work on your own to receive the answers from your Soul. For many people, it is [...]

By Stacey Stephens|2018-12-01T10:24:02-08:00January 5th, 2019|0 Comments

How can I find out what my life purpose is, as this is why I am here, but I can’t figure out why and what it is?

We are pleased to answer this question for you. There are numerous ways to discover what it is that your Soul and ego-mind, along with your body, would like to accomplish in this incarnation. And, when you combine these three aspects of yourself you will come to know your own individual purpose. Your body will [...]

By Stacey Stephens|2018-12-15T12:49:17-08:00December 15th, 2018|0 Comments

When is it a positive action to stand up to bullies?

WE would like for you to see bullies as people lacking real care for others. They live in a small world where they feel alone and in competition with everyone else. This type of isolation is self-made. Bullies push away true friendships with their demands of compliance from others. Can you feel truly cared for, [...]

By Stacey Stephens|2018-10-18T13:34:52-07:00October 20th, 2018|0 Comments

How do I keep my balance around ruthless people?

WE would say to you to see yourself as a character in their movie. You can always leave the scene. When someone is acting out in a manner that is harmful, uncaring or unethical you do not need to participate with them. You also do not need to bring them into your movie. You create [...]

By Stacey Stephens|2018-10-18T13:36:48-07:00October 13th, 2018|0 Comments